i saw this post by my friend on Facebook, and thought of sharing this to you guys (readers of this blog 🙂 )
God witholds what we desire in order to give us what we need
You desire a spouse? He gives you Himself.. you seek a larger church, He prefers a stronger church.
You want to be healed so that you can serve.. He wants you confined for a while so that you can pray and spend more time alone in His presence.